About

My name's Molly and I run this joint. Nice to meetcha.

 

I grew up in the Bay Area, but didn't start practicing BDSM until my 20s while working in Osaka as a writer. During my first timid visit to a local fetish bar, I befriended the dominatrix who owned the place. She was kind enough to introduce me to the scene and I eventually began performing with her in small shibari shows.

 

I stepped away from performing after a short time, but Pandora's box had been blown wide open. I continued to learn, play, date, and experiment within the Japanese BDSM scene. There were primal, illuminating moments of catharsis alongside gut-wrenching instances of vulnerability and heartbreak. Through the good experiences and the bad I grew stronger, refined my boundaries, stumbled across hidden aspects of my sexuality, and shed other people's expectations of who I should be.

 

In 2017, I started organizing and hosting the only BDSM munch in the Osaka area at the time, which I'm thrilled to say is still alive and kicking today. Community organizing has given me countless opportunities to talk kink with hedonists of various backgrounds, nationalities, orientations, interests, levels of experience, and more. It's been a gratifying, eye-opening adventure.

 

These days I'm back in California, happy as a pig in shit to be part of the revolutionary kink community that's developed here. I've had the privilege of collaborating with a number of incredibly knowledgeable sexperts and superhero(ine)s of the local sex-positivity movement. I look forward to continuing this journey and sharing what I learn with you. Stay tuned.

Provisos

I am a writer. I am NOT a doctor, lawyer, psychologist, neurologist, or dominatrix and can't help you with any specific kink-related issues that require the help of a licensed professional. This site is to be used for educational and entertainment purposes only.

 

(For full and riveting lists of all the reasons you're not allowed to sue me, I invite you to grab an exceedingly strong cup of covfefe and check out my Disclaimer and Terms & Conditions pages!)

 

And one more thing to keep in mind:

 

The BDSM community is made up of unique individuals with countless fetishes, preferences, and feelings about how things should be done. There's no single, "correct" way to approach kink (as long as you're playing safely, sanely, and consensually, of course).

 

Never try anything that doesn't feel right for you. One of the most rewarding aspects of BDSM is the knowledge it will allow you to discover about yourself. Above all, enjoy and be you.

Molly Lazarus : Kink Out Loud

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